Who Are You Building For?

We read a story and think, “Really? Did that happen? And what’s it got to do with life now?”
You’re not the only one who’s thought that.
But what if some of those “weird old stories” actually shine a light on what’s happening right now — in our world, our work, our hearts?

Let's head to Gen 11 as there is a story just like that there . . .

At one time all the people of the world spoke the same language...
“Come, let’s build a city with a tower that reaches the sky. Let’s make a name for ourselves and avoid being scattered.”
But the Lord came down, confused their language, and scattered them across the earth.
Genesis 11:1–9

A united people.

A bold plan.

A tower touching the heavens.

And then — confusion.

A sudden breakdown in communication.

Dreams halted. People scattered.

It sounds simple: people build a tower, God stops them, story ends.

But underneath, something much deeper is going on.

The Man Behind the Tower

Step back a chapter, to Genesis 10, and we meet Nimrod — whose very name means rebel.
He built his kingdom in Babylon and stretched it across the ancient world.
He wasn’t just a “great hunter” — he was a power-hungry ruler, pushing boundaries, driven to dominate.
So the Tower of Babel wasn’t a fun local project.
It was a statement — an empire built on pride, strength, and control.
It was the first recorded moment when humanity tried to build a world without God.

Bricks and Tar

The people said, “Let’s make bricks and bake them hard.”
It might sound like a technical detail, but it’s telling.

Until then, buildings were made from rough stones — each one different, unpredictable.
Bricks changed everything: neat, efficient, identical. They represented progress, technology, and power.
But there’s a warning tucked in there.
When we create things that make us faster, stronger, and more connected — the question isn’t just can we?
It’s why are we? And who are we building it for?

Babel Then — and Babel Now

Babel is more than a city. It’s a mirror. It shows what happens when people chase greatness without God in the picture.
When “making a name” matters more than knowing His name.

Today, our towers look different — glass offices, online profiles, bank balances, reputations.
But the motive can be the same: “Look what I’ve built.”

And what’s the outcome?
Disunity.
Comparison.
Exhaustion.
Noise.

Sound familiar?

It’s Babel, rebuilt — one post, one promotion, one project at a time.
When God scattered the people at Babel, it wasn’t punishment. It was protection — a loving disruption before pride consumed them.

The Gift and the Danger

God loves creativity. He designed us to build, to imagine, to make things new.
But when those gifts become about us — about control, status, or security — they turn dangerous.
We’ve learned to build faster than ever before. But if we’re honest, we’re not always building better.

The question Babel still asks is this:

“Whose name are you lifting up?”

Centuries after the story of the Tower of Babel, another man came asking Jesus, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”
Jesus told him to let go of his wealth and follow Him — but he couldn’t.
His own little empire was too precious to give up.
(Mark 10:17–22)

Jesus’ response, then and now, is simple but searching:

Love God with everything you are, and love your neighbour as yourself.

Or in modern terms:

Stop building your own kingdom — help build Mine.

So, Who Are You Building For?

Maybe it’s your job — wanting to be seen, respected, or secure.
Maybe it’s your family — wanting control, or for things to go your way.
Maybe it’s your image — the quiet pressure to look like you’ve got it all together.

The Story of Tower of Babel isn’t really about architecture.

It’s about ambition and affection — who gets the glory for what we build.
And Jesus offers us a better foundation — one made of love, grace, and surrender, not pride and control.

Three Ways to Build God’s Way

Pause before you plan. Ask God, “Is this for my name, or Yours?”

Use what you’ve been given to bless others. Creativity, success, leadership — they’re tools for good, not trophies for self.

Choose connection over control. Build bridges, not towers. Seek understanding, not dominance.




When we hand our blueprints back to God, He doesn’t stop us building — He helps us build something worth keeping.




This article is based on the message shared by Phil Hibbert at the service on 12 Oct.




You can of course watch the full service, including the sermon on our website, here.

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Hello and welcome to our church. If you are a new visitor, we have a page for you to get to know us and learn more about planning a visit.
Click here to see more.

Planning your Visit

A Warm Hello 


We know meeting someone for the first time can be intimidating and going to a new church for the first time can be nerveracking. We want to help make your first experience at Bethel a great one.

Where and When

We meet at the Chapel (details here) for our Sunday Service starting at 10:30am.
For your first visit, we recommend arriving 10-15 minutes early.  As we don't have our own car park, you will have to find a spot in one of the many public car parks around town.  Don't worry, there is always loads of parking as it's Sunday morning and its.a very short walk.
When you arrive, you will be greeted by one of our welcomers at the door, who will show you where to sit and provide you with a "Contact Us" sheet should you want to us to contact you after the service.

Accessibility: There is wheelchair access, and a sound loop for anyone who needs it. Please let one of the Welcome Team know on your arrival and they will help you to get set up. There are disabled toilets in the church hall.

We see our services on a Sunday like a family get together.  We like to laugh and have fun.  Life can sometimes be very challenging, whether you are young or old; it helps to have support and a place to belong; so on Sundays we do just that.  

What you can expect on a Sunday morning at Bethel is:

A warm, friendly community of people
To be welcomed and included.    
To be supported.
To be given a chance.
To sometimes laugh and sometimes cry.
To be challenged and also to have fun.
To experience the presence of God in us and in creation.
To sing, because music is probably the best way we have of expressing our emotions and gratefulness to God.
A love for the Bible and the truths in it.

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What about my kids?

We have a great programme lined up for kids of all ages:

Creche (0 months to 3 years). Children under 6 months are welcome but must be accompanied by their parent/grown-up at all times.
Sunday Club (4 -11 years)
Young people (11+ years) They have a group meeting one week and the next join in the service in the Chapel. 

Children stay with their parent or grown-up at the start of the service for the welcome, a song or two songs, notices and an all age reflection. We really value worshipping God all together as a family. At the end of the notices someone will announce that it’s time for the younger members to go to their various groups.  We suggest that on your first visit, you go along with your child to drop them off and meet the leaders, before returning to the Chapel. 

The kids group activities vary depending on the age but usually there is a friendly welcome, bible stories, testimonies, praying, music, craft, drama, fun games and free play. Please pick your children up as soon as the service finishes.


Getting Connected


Home Groups

While Sundays are a great way to meet new people, it is often in smaller gatherings that you can really get to know someone. Being part of one of our small groups allows you to make new friends, share together and support each other. We have a variety of groups that meet throughout the week, some afternoons and some evenings. Check out Small Groups and see if there’s one that you could join, or we can put you in touch with a small group leader who will be more than happy to invite you along to their group.

Serving and Volunteering

If you want to get involved in the life of the church and help us make Sundays run smoothly, you can sign up to serve on a team. 

Other Ministries

We also run the following ministries:

Men's Ministries
Women's Ministries
Youth Group
Foodbank
Renew Wellbeing Cafe
 

Get in touch with us to plan your visit

If you would like to come and visit the church beforehand you are more than welcome! Get in touch and we can arrange a time that suits you.
 
Name:
Telephone:
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Comments / Questions or anything you would like to say?

Next, we will contact you by email to say hello and help arrange anything necessary for your visit.
 

Leadership 

Phil    
Phil Hibbert    
Pastor    
 
We hope that whoever you are, you will feel at home at our church.